Friday, August 25, 2006
Escheresque View of the Twin Pagoda Monastery
Schell told us that the Twin Pagodas were not a popular place in Taiyuan. You'd think it get some more people because the entrance faces the equivalent of an American commuter "Park-n-Ride".
It's beautiful and quiet. This is exactly the kind of place in which I'd love to spend hours. I really want to go back to China.
Thursday, August 24, 2006
Reblog -- Going Back to Visit the Orphanage Part III
This photo was taken before the visit to the Buddhist Temple (see below). I can definitely see a difference now, it's not just wishful thinking. This is the last of Theo's Going Back to Visit the Orphanage entries. I'll follow up with pictures of the actual temple. -- RD
I'll focus on Li Mei and happier news: she's blossoming before our eyes. It's like watching a child go from one to two in fast-forward, as her walking becomes more confident (and adventurous) each day. Rachel can see her filling out (my theory is that it's all the food loading her down) and she's starting to ask for things and protest when she's not getting what she wants. She does less stimming (if you've seen an autistic child rocking back and forth you know what I mean) and more active play and investigation. And she's making eye contact, a very good sign both for family-bonding and her own vision -- maybe she can see better than we thought at first?
Last night the boys sacked out early, and Rachel and Cindy went out for a junk food fix (KFC is big here), so my job was to get Li Mei to sleep. Good plan, but not her plan, and when I didn't give her enough walking and bouncing she sat on my belly and jumped up and down to show what she wanted. Two year old brain, one year old body. (Sleepy dad.)
We have two more days in TaiYuan; today we'll visit the famous local temple, and maybe find something more active for the boys to do. Tomorrow is the last round of local paperwork (we hope) before we can apply for her passport; if all goes well we leave for GuanZhou on Tuesday.
..Theo
Wednesday, August 23, 2006
Kai and Rowan Giving out Treats
Sign above the Orphanage Gates
From the Development Report we were sent at our initial match:
1. Entering the Orphanage
Dang Li Mei, female, born about November 19, 2003, was found abandoned at 5:00 am on November 26, 2003, at the main entrance to our orphanage. Our orphanage staff member Shi Cheng Xiang picked her up. When she was found, she was about eight days old. She had albinism, and when she was picked up, there was a bottle and some milk-based formula left with her. She was wrapped in a cotton blanket. That day the West Xinhua Street Police Station brought her to our orphanage to be cared for. So far her biological parents or other relatives have been unable to be located.
First Entrance
Police Station in Yang Quan
Le Moyne Star Quilt in Yang Quan
Reblog - Going Back to Visit the Orphanage Part II
See Theo's previous blog for the first part of the story. These next pictures illustrate his comments.
All in all it took about twice that, including a search for a bathroom (we found one, of the kind that Rowan calls a "squat") and the detour to the grocery store for supplies to bring to the orphanage. Schell insisted on a few photo stops too, like the cave houses and the Yongquan government center. We didn't understand his interest in the latter until he pointed out in Li Mei's history where she was found on the sidewalk; our translation said it was at the police station, so we imagined a squad house, not the whole city office complex.
Then to the orphanage, and it's just impossible to describe it. Look at Rachel's blog for the pictures. We only saw a handful of the 90+ children (the rest were sleeping, a good way to spend a hot afternoon here) and were only allowed into the courtyard/playground. Kai and Rowan handed out cookies, which might have been a nice scene, but frankly both sides were weirded out by it all. We did get to meet two other children whose adoptions are in progress, and got very thankful e-mails from their waiting families, who hadn't received any photos before Rachel sent hers.
We saw the garden where most of Li Mei's pictures were taken, and met the three nannies (yep, three for 90 kids), the manager and some of the older kids who help out. Some of our gift supplies went into the orphanage, and some went to the nannies' cars, and what could we do about it? I didn't say anything; I was trying to think of how we could just load the van with kids and take them all home with us.
Li Mei had been wearing her sunglasses all day, but when the nannies saw her, the first thing they did was take them off, so she was back to her angry-looking squint for the rest of the visit. I watched her for some sign of recognition or understanding (or panic) but she was quiet and passive the whole time. She perked up again during dinner and was playing as usual well into the evening.
Reblog - Going Back to Visit the Orphanage Part I
Another of Theo's entries, the most emotionally difficult day of our trip.
Renting a van and driver for the day trip to Li Mei's home town: $125
Big dinner there for four adults, two boys and a little girl: $13
Two full grocery carts of cereal, protein powder, honey and cookies: $54
Seeing the orphanage: heartbreaking
Schell (the guide) told us it was an hour and a half drive to Yongquan (plus "China time," the allowance you make here for traffic, closed roads and who knows what else), 100+ km through red, hilly countryside that reminds me of South Dakota. Every flat stretch of ground is farmed, and a lot of the rest has been torn out for building materials. They're even trying to sell the strip-mined hillsides as "cave houses" that stay cool in the summer and warm in the winter; you get bonus mud oozing through the ceiling year round too, I bet.
Tuesday, August 22, 2006
Jasmine and Josh
The fellow being walked by Jasmine is Joshua Zhong. He and his wife Lily Nie founded Chinese Children Adoption International which is the organization that brought Jasmine and us together. I think if he had the chance, he'd spend lots more time playing with all the kids. ;)
Monday, August 21, 2006
Bestest Toy V
The Bestest Toy
I'm hanging out with Jazz, she looks like she's about to crash. The lights are off so I pull out my flexible light to read without disturbing her. Ha. Within seconds she's off and running. The pictures that came out best were her contemplative moments. The only light supplied was from the single white LED on the stick.
Sunday, August 20, 2006
Da Ge and Mei Mei
"Da Ge" translates as eldest brother. "Mei Mei" is little sister. Rowan is known as "Er ge", but when I was explaining this to my parents, they thought I said something like, "Rowan is Jasmine's 'AAAAaaaargh'". I suppose they were thinking of Monty Python and the Holy Grail. They told me not to worry, she'd get English very quickly.
I don't doubt it. If I could only get Mandarin as fast. ;)
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